I’m a fat woman who has had lots and lots
of awesome sex almost exclusively with partners much smaller than myself. When
I met my current partner a year ago, I was at my fattest, about 150 lbs heavier
than he is, making our sex the most drastic in terms of size difference
relative to my past partners. Most women I know would not be comfortable with
that size difference, and in candid moments, friends have asked, “So, how does
that work?”
The short answer? It works just great and I love it. There are many misconceptions about how fat women have sex, especially when one partner is fat and the other is not. I’m here to explore that topic, specifically the issue of being a fat woman having sex with a smaller partner.
The short answer? It works just great and I love it. There are many misconceptions about how fat women have sex, especially when one partner is fat and the other is not. I’m here to explore that topic, specifically the issue of being a fat woman having sex with a smaller partner.
I know many women who would love to have sex with smaller
partners but feel that it wouldn’t work mechanically, that two drastically
different bodies couldn’t come together in a pleasurable way. Additionally,
many women who do have smaller partners tell me they don’t totally enjoy sex
because they feel self-conscious, embarrassed, or unfulfilled because they
can’t “let go” during sex. This brings me to what I feel is one of the most
important parts of enjoying sex as a fat woman.
